terça-feira, 10 de agosto de 2010

Internet breaking up relationships



In today’s world, the population had improved a lot, and the relationships too, but, when it’s finished, people usually have arguments and break up, correct? Not any more!

With the advance of the technology and social networking, people are preferring to end a relationship by the internet, according to a research made by a web site called AreYouInterested, that discovered by interviewing people that they when they don’t know if the relationship is completed over, they go to their Facebooks and see if the other person has upgraded for ‘’single’’ their status, or if he wants to finish, he just change his atatus and don’t talk or see the other person any more.

However, this attitude of just give a click on a web site and never see the other person, can make some problems appear, for example, the other person can not believe, or wants too continue the relationship but can’t talk too their partner.

For me, this is a very serious matter to be dealt with only by internet, it has to be discussed with the two persons for them they upgrade their Facebooks.

Source: http://veja.abril.com.br/noticia/vida-digital/cresce-numero-relacionamentos-terminam-via-facebook

domingo, 8 de agosto de 2010

Relationship - The Marriage


In today´s world, is increasingly difficult find marriages succesful and lasting like the marriages at the time of our grandfathers, for example. The marriage is losing its essence and the separation is increasingly common.
Actually, you can see many loving couples where the partners, that know each other little, says that love each other. Its cause a trivialization of the love, that is the essence of the marriage contract, and this trivialization is one reason for the large number of separations that we see nowadays.
However, this change in the marriages is a normal consequence of freer society in which we live. The separation already is a normal thing and happens until in families with children, in many cases, simply because one of the partners have found a more interesting person. Some peoples understand that the love promised to his partner at the altar, is only valid while last the marriage.
In our opinion, the goal of the marriage is not choose the best pair possible around the world, but built the best possible relationship with the people that you promised to love forever. The marriage is learn to live with other people, respecting theirs faults and differences, but many couples can´t, and many others don´t try, which makes that the marriage becoming increasingly less sustainable.

http://veja.abril.com.br/290904/ponto_de_vista.html